Something you could also discuss is the fear of many local swingers about what many would think about them as a couple, knowing their preferences, and that is why many of them have this fear of being caught as if this would be something wrong. The problem is that those who need help understanding this way of living judge so quickly without even being open to the idea of understanding how these couples feel while experiencing swinging. People with such thinking believe something like that would affect a long-term relationship, even if, paradoxically, this is what makes it stronger.