It's not unusual for people to meet New York escorts to talk and connect without having sex! Of course, this results in a stricter selection of clients and a stricter code of etiquette. A curious consequence of this is the escort code, which we'll cover later, but it's important to remember that you probably won't be talking directly about sex with an escort. You have to be a little more boring about it, make an effort in the form of flirting - you know, like you would on a regular date.